Engineer of subconscious

Engineer of subconscious

Victoria Baraev,

Certified Hypnosis Practitioner, Professional Inner Work Coach, Spiritual Therapist, psychologist by education, certified holistic nutrition counselor, poet, member of the MAPP writers' union, winner of the "Golden Pen of Rus'" award, winner of the first prize in the international competition of writers and publicists "Baltic Gamayun". Victoria lives in Atlanta and devotes a lot of time to studying Torah psychology.

Problems Do Not Dissolve in Silence

There is an illusion: if you don't touch it – it will dissolve on its own. Don't say it out loud, don't show how much it hurts, don't air your dirty laundry. Wait. Endure. Talk to the walls, drown it in vodka...

People don't change. Or do they?

On the most contested belief in relationshipsAsk ten people and opinions will split almost down the middle. Some will say "a leopard never changes its spots". Others will push back: "I changed myself, I've wa...

Passover Every Year. And We're Still There.

Every date on the Jewish calendar helps us with the most important creative work of this life – correcting and refining our human qualities. Passover is dedicated to one of the most fundamental and eternally ...

The Exposure Of Totality or Your Reaction Is About You

We live among people and almost inevitably judge one another by actions and reactions, forgetting that we see only the tip of the iceberg. What truly drives behavior lies beneath the surface. That is where t...

The Child Who Was Never Held

“Adult life is when your inner child wants to be held, and your inner back says it can’t lift any more weight.” Jokes about the clichéd “inner child” are everywhere these days, just like talk about psychothe...

Double bottom, or the script you never chose

My daily work with clients keeps bringing me back to the topic of the subconscious – a powerful yet often underestimated realm. I am happy to share these insights with my readers and continue the conversation...

When the Gaze Falls Silent: The Subconscious Speaks First

Someone passes by you without saying hello. All too familiar, isn’t it? What’s your reaction? I’m sure each of us has a different one. For some – indifference. For others, discomfort. And for some – real pai...

The song of the sea and the whisper of sorrow or Who Governs the Governor

Not long ago, a client asked me a profound question:If a loved one at times shows love and warmth toward me, yet at other moments expresses irritation and blame, which of these faces is the true one?My quest...

The Soul’s Pendulum: Virtues and Their Shadows

It is easier to notice flaws in people. They are visible to the naked eye. Much harder is to discern virtues. Our tradition teaches: flaws are like dirt on clothing that can be washed away, revealing the tru...

The Pygmalion Effect

According to ancient Greek mythology, the sculptor Pygmalion was so disillusioned with women that he vowed never to marry. Instead, he carved a statue out of ivory – a figure of breathtaking beauty – and fel...