Our
grandmother Rena was a truly remarkable woman—strong, poised, and endlessly
loving. She spoke with elegance and wisdom, and her presence carried a quiet
dignity. Having endured so much throughout her life, she remained a beautiful
example of a devoted wife and mother.
She loved to make us laugh and share stories.
She found joy in the simplest things: having tea with friends and family,
gathering for holidays, speaking with loved ones on the phone or in person, and
even going to the store. No matter how small the occasion, she would dress with
care and pride—a beautiful example for us, especially as we grew up in the
casual culture of America.
As a mother, she was both kind and strict.
Raising three boys in the Soviet Union was no easy task. She followed through
on her discipline in ways they never expected. “Don’t wash the dishes well?
I’ll break them.” They laughed—until she did. “Don’t wash the floors well? I’ll
spill the bucket, and you’ll have to clean again.” They laughed—but she
followed through. These stories, while humorous now, reflect her firm and loving
approach.
As a grandmother, she delighted in laughter. She was
quick-witted, always making clever observations and sharing wisdom in a way
that was simple and direct—brief and clear.
Angela and I had the great privilege of living
with and being raised by our dear grandmother. She did so much for us, and
because of that, our bond is especially deep. We carry with us countless
cherished memories.
As we approached marriage, she shared her wisdom
on how to be a good wife and build a strong, healthy relationship—advice that
remains deeply relevant today. We are profoundly grateful for her sincerity and
guidance.
We will miss our calls and visits with her
dearly. We find comfort in the beautiful memories that will live on in our
hearts. We ask for her forgiveness.
Baruch
Dayen Ha’emet. May her memory be a blessing. May her soul have an Aliyah.
Please do a mitzvah in her honor (a small act of kindness, lighting Shabbat
candles, baking challah with the blessing/offering, etc.).
With love and gratitude to our dear grandmother,
Sveta, Bella, Stan, Vladi, Anna, Angela, Ruben
and Vica
