Dear
friends!
Not long ago, in May, we celebrated Mother’s Day — and now June has arrived,
another special month when the world honors fathers on Father’s Day. And in
between these two holidays is International Children’s Day (June 1), which
feels deeply symbolic. As if the universe itself is gently reminding us: for a
child to grow up happy, both parents must be present — not just physically, but
together. In partnership, in care, and in love.
We
often and gladly write about mothers. But today, we offer special words to
fathers — those who are already dads and those who will be. Because your role
in a child’s life is no less important. It is simply different.
It
is commonly said that a father represents strength. But in truth, he represents
life. The ability to overcome hardships, to keep one’s word, to never give up.
And if you ask an adult, “Who taught you that?” — the answer is often: “My
father.”
And there is one more important lesson: a father teaches his children to
respect their mother — through his own example.
The
best thing a man can do for his children is to love and cherish their mother.
It may sound simple, but within that simplicity lies the wisdom of generations.
A good father is, first and foremost, a caring husband. When a child sees their
father treating their mother with respect — speaking to her gently, offering a
helping hand, making her tea, calling her “my love” — that memory stays
forever.
It’s what gives a child a deep sense of security, confidence, and emotional
balance. Children don’t just hear words — they feel attitudes. The bond between
mother and child is biological, deep, and energetic. When a mother suffers, the
child suffers with her. A true father never forgets this.
No
matter how relationships between adults unfold — and sadly, divorces are not
uncommon in our community — a father is never “former.” He is always a father.
And the best thing he can do for his children is to remain present and to
continue treating their mother with kindness.
We
live in a world where traditional parenting roles are no longer rigid. Today’s
fathers joyfully engage in their children’s lives — they take walks in the
park, help with homework, have heart-to-heart talks. But the most important
thing is not to be perfect — just to be real. Kind, dependable, sincere. The
kind of person a child wants to emulate.
On
the cover of this issue is just such a father: Roshel Mullokandov, lovingly
remembered by his daughter on the 100th anniversary of his birth (pp. 12–14).
To many, he was a gifted artist and a brilliant stage talent. But to his
family, he was above all a devoted, gentle, attentive, and loving husband and
father. His children and grandchildren grew up with his example etched into
their hearts.
I had the privilege of knowing him personally. It was a great pleasure to spend
time with him here in the U.S., to see him within his family, to relax together
in nature. Every time, I was moved by his refined manners, dignified presence,
beautiful way of speaking — and his radiant, tender smile that almost never
left his face, even as his life drew to a close.
He was a true gentleman — not just on stage, but in life. In spirit, and in
heart.
In
this issue, we also introduce a new column: “Women of the Past and Present”,
graciously offered and led by the esteemed writer and journalist Yosef
Zakharovich Badalov, former director of the Khujum textile factory in
Samarkand, where a vast number of women once worked. He knows firsthand the
challenges they faced — both at work and at home.
But above all, despite his many responsibilities, Mr. Badalov is a model father
of four daughters, each of whom has followed a meaningful and worthy path. His
life is living proof of how essential a father’s support and presence can be.
His daughters — all highly educated healthcare professionals — speak of him
with pride and deep gratitude for everything he gave them.
Today
we congratulate all fathers — real, strong, caring, sometimes tired, confused,
or imperfect. You are needed. You are irreplaceable. Your example is a
foundation. Your love is wings. And everything you give to your family will one
day come back to you — in warmth and trust.
Dear
men! Be present. Not just in body — with your whole soul. Be part of your
family’s life. Give compliments. Smile. Forgive. Say kind words. Learn to
listen and be attentive.
This is not weakness — it is strength. True strength.
And may your children be proud of you — not just because you work hard, but
because at home, you are kind, loving, and fully alive.
Dear
fathers! With all my heart, and with deep respect for your role as dads, I wish
you a very happy Father’s Day.
May your efforts — both as parents and as human beings — return to you in the
form of love, respect, and pride.
